23 dating 36
I'm a 23 year old single mom, dating a 36 year old married man.
We've been dating for a year and 2 months now and up until now I was completely sure of our "love" he still lives with his wife and 2 kids, ages 5 and 3.
Other than his irritating ability to consume ten big mac meals and still have perfect abs, I thought I’d share some of our challenges.
Therapists would certainly be out of a job if we were all nailing relationship communication, regardless of age. I’ve had many long term relationships, and grasp the importance of separating coloureds from whites and importantly know women don’t like being called “bro”.
I was having breakfast the other day with a friend who was giving dating advice to his son.
For purposes of his anonymity, I am going to call just call him "Son." My friend said, "Son, you're 18 years old, so I am going to tell you how you date.
Time creates wisdom – but it also creates responsibilities and complications – mortgage, kids, career, etc.
Tell him he knows how to find you if he leaves his wife. Don't rush into dating, but don't wait for him either. You're right I shoul move on but it's so hard I'm way too attached I've tried slowly texting him less but always get sucked back into it all.It’s a lot easier for a man to take out a carefree, responsibility free, baggage free, wrinkle free 28-year-old, which is why so many men try to go in that direction. Men want much younger women, but rarely do much younger women want older men.Put another way, if a woman has an array of other quality options closer to her age range, what incentives would she have to date a man who is SEVENTEEN YEARS OLDER? Before any 40 people get all hot and bothered about this – I am not judging. I do think people improve with age (my wife is nodding). She doesn’t need a guy who will be taking Viagra when she’s sexually peaking at 43..Well saturday after the fight he asked me to meet up with him, we made love like never before!I love him to death, and I dot wanna leave him I can't fathom the idea of living without him!!